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Category: Abstinence Education

Published: 09 October 2022

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Access all Urban Life Training Abstinence-Centered Education Resources, including Slides, Videos, Written Materials and Manuals (See the list Below) for one year	Access all Urban Life Training Abstinence-Centered Education Resources, including Slides, Videos, Written Materials and Manuals (See the list Below) for one year	Access all Urban Life Training Abstinence-Centered Education Resources, including Slides, Videos, Written Materials and Manuals (See the list Below) for one year
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Urban Life Training Membership Materials List

Relationship Intelligence Slides

Relationship Intelligence Part 2-Protecting Your Future – 95 Slides,
Including:
                Terry Crews Video
                Nick Vujicic Video
                Dollar Bill Activity
                Slide script

Relationship Intelligence-Part 3-Maturing Your Love – 71 Slides,
Including:

Why a Teenage Mother Says She Feels “Trapped” video
Karina-16@War Video
Activity - Write a letter to an imagined romantic partner saying there will be no sex
Slide Script

The above slides (slightly different version) are also offered divided into two parts, each.

Relationship Intelligence Part 2-Protecting Your Future-Week 1

Activity:  React or choose Your Response
Activity:  Alcohol Alters His Olympic Dreams
Nic Vujiicic Video
Dollar Bill Activity

Relationship Intelligence Part 2-Protecting Your Future-Week 2

                Activity:  Guarding Your Future
                Audio:  Oral Cancer HPV Testimony
                Activity:  Nerf Ball Activity

Relationship Intelligence Part 3-Maturing Your Love-Week 3

                Karina 16@War video
                Activity:  I lost my virginity About Four Months Ago
                Activity:  Not What He Expected It to Be
                Activity:  She Thought she Was in Love
                Activity:  Inside-Outside Time
                Activity:  My Name Is Jerica (about sexual abuse)

Relationship Intelligence Part 3-Maturing Your Love-Week 4

                Activity:  Are You Ready for This?
                Discussion Questions:  To Date or Not to Date?
                Activity:  Dating Boundaries
                Urban Life Training Pledge (abstinence pledge)

Video Clips for Discussion

Why Wait Classroom Peer Counseling Part 1 plus discussion questions

Why Wait Classroom Peer Counseling Part 2 plus discussion questions

STAR Guide Testimonies-Clips for Discussion plus discussion questions

Peer Counseling Video Clips and Scripts

Resisting Peer Pressure Peer counseling video clips and script (recommended for grades 7 to 10)
Learning Assertive Techniques video clips and peer counseling script (recommended for grades 7 to 10)

Presenter Training Recordings

1 - Introduction
2 – Protecting Your Future
3 – Maturing Your Love
4 – Peer Counseling
5 – Video Clips for Discussion
6 – STAR Leadership Clubs 

STAR Interfaith Leadership Training-10 week program

Week 1:

Sermonette: 
Rev. Hyung Jin Moon on the cultural battle between good and evil and the importance of natural marriage.

Protecting Your Future Part A:  PowerPoint presentation & activities.

Week 2:

Sermonette: 

Rev. Hyung Jin Moon on the crisis of abortion and Planned Parenthood and the fallacy of gay marriage

Protecting Your Future Part B:  PowerPoint presentation & activities: 

Week 3

Sermonette:

Rev. Hyung Jin Moon on the crisis of moral breakdown in America and the physical and spiritual risks of the homosexual lifestyle.

Maturing Your Love-Part A:  PowerPoint presentation & activities:

Week 4

Sermonette:

Rev. Hyung Jin Moon on spiritual growth.

Maturing Your Love-Part B:  PowerPoint presentation & activities

Week 5:

Sermonette:  Rev. Hyung Jin Moon on the importance of Christianity for creating and maintaining stable families and on the current crisis of family breakdown in the black community.

Learning Assertive Techniques Peer Counseling & Peer Counselor
Training:   Youth learn how to avoid situations where there might be pressure to engage in sex or drug or alcohol use.  Youth learn how to say no using verbal and nonverbal methods, and they practice using these skills.  Participating youth practice using assertive techniques.

Week 6:

Sermonette:

Rev. Hyung Jin Moon on the benefits of stable families with strong fathers and the detrimental effect of the culture of "bad sex".  Discussion about the sexual corruption of Hollywood and how it is being exposed.

Why Wait: Classroom Peer Counseling, STAR Guide Testimonies and Youth Forum III:  Video segments followed by guided discussion.  Topics include:   Reasons to stay abstinent, the importance of how you dress, setting boundaries, the benefits of abstinence, the consequences of sex, and the eight D’s of sexual temptation.  Opportunity to sign the Urban Life Training Abstinence Pledge.

Week 7:
Sermonette:  Rev. Hyung Jin Moon on creating a culture of godly sex toward the goal of building the Kingdom of Heaven on earth through ideal families.  Study of the Parable of the Sower in Matthew 13.

 A New View of the Fall of Man:  PowerPoint, worksheet, and discussion about the Biblical story of Adam and Eve (the importance of sexual purity from God’s point of view).  Second Opportunity to sign the Urban Life Training abstinence pledge.

Week 8:

Sermon:

Guidance for young couples on the right attitude to succeed in their married relationship.
Note:  This is a longer (48 minutes vs the usual 10 to 15 min) sermon.  You may want to listen to part of this sermon only, or include the entire sermon in an optional marriage guidance session)
What is the Purpose of Live?  The Principle of Creation:  PowerPoint about the nature of God’s creation and explanation about what the three life purposes described in Genesis 1:28 are and how to achieve them. 

Week 9:

Sermonette:

Rev. Hyung Jin Moon on how to build a godly relationship within your marriage.  How can you help your husband to be a godly alpha male?  How can husbands help their wives to be a godly woman?  Why is skinship important for a couple?
Principles of Spiritual Growth:  PowerPoint about the relationship between spirit and body and how the spirit grows based on the actions of the physical body.

 Week 10:  Celebration of Purity:

Sermon:

Rev. Hyung Jin Moon on the importance of sexual abstinence before marriage and fidelity within marriage and teaching that to our children.

Parents and youth bring refreshments.  Youth are invited to recite the Urban Life Training Pledge in front of God and their Parents.  A ginger ale toast is made to celebrate this commitment to purity.  Optionally, youth and parents can purchase a True Love Waits ring, which youth will receive from their parent during the ceremony.  Youth and parent can offer testimonies.  Songs or skits may be shared (songs or skits need to be approved ahead of time).